New to Tildi? This walks you through one whole message, in the order it happens: open the room, write it messy, name what the message has to do, and leave with one of three versions that still sounds like you. The last four steps cover everything that is not a first draft.
Recorded in the web room itself. The intentions, the people and the results are the ones the room actually renders; no sound, so nothing is missed with it off.
01
Set up
Open the room
The web room needs nothing installed. Sign in once and the things you deliberately save follow you.
Continue with Apple, Google, or an email link.
No card, no trial clock, no setup wizard.
A short guided tour runs the first time the room opens, and can be replayed from Customization.
Everything below works on the first visit.
02
The draft
Write it messy
Start with the whole thought, even if it is unfinished, emotional, over-explained, or only a fragment. The mess is the input, not a problem to fix first.
Type it, paste it, or speak it.
Speech is transcribed on your device.
Leave the real feeling in: it is what there is to preserve.
03
The one required choice
Name the intention
Tildi asks what the message needs to do, not which tone you would like. There are 26 intentions across four families, and the register follows from the one you pick.
Everyday: keep it casual, give a quick heads-up, check in.
Hard to say: soften the blow, apologize for real, set a boundary.
The ask: ask for something, ask for help, follow up.
Heart first: open up, say thanks, congratulate.
04
Optional context
Say who will read it
When it helps, tell Tildi who is on the other end. People sets recipient-aware warmth, directness, politeness, and formality based on relationship context, never a name or stereotype.
Save the relationship, not an identity guess.
Pick the person in the flow, not in a settings screen.
The register adjusts quietly: the words stay yours.
05
What comes back
Choose from three versions
Exactly three adaptive versions. The middle one is recommended, and you decide what gets copied or saved.
Compare a small spectrum rather than one polished answer.
Edit any version before you take it.
Copy it out, or deliberately save the one that feels right.
06
When a message arrives
Read it a second time, calmly
Second Read separates the likely meaning from the harshest interpretation you have already imagined, then offers a way to answer.
A plain-language gist.
The likely meaning, and what it probably does not mean.
Useful intentions for a reply, ready to hand to Rewrite.
07
Before you speak
Plan what you have to say out loud
Prepare turns a rough goal into a calm, speakable plan without trying to predict the other person.
A speakable opening.
Two or three core points, and the hardest sentence.
Practical ways to respond if the room shifts.
08
How much you get
Know the daily rhythm
An action is one rewrite, one Second Read, or one Prepare plan. Free covers the daily essentials; Unfold is for weeks where Tildi is part of how you write.
Free: 3 actions a day, within 10 a month, and all 26 intentions.
Unfold: up to 20 a day, within 250 a month.
Unfold also learns your writing voice from samples you provide and corrections you copy.
09
What Tildi keeps
Nothing you write trains a model
Drafts, Second Read messages, Prepare plans, and generated versions are not added to Tildi’s application database, and nothing is used to train a model.
Only a version you deliberately save becomes a Saved entry.
Speech is transcribed on your device.
The keyboard sends only the message you deliberately submit.